Pagan Coffee Talk
Pagan Coffee Talk is a modern paganism & witchcraft podcast exploring spiritual practice, community, and clergy experience weekly. Each episode invites listeners into candid, grounded conversations about what it really means to live, practice, and serve within today’s diverse pagan paths. Whether you’re a long‑time practitioner or someone newly curious about earth‑based spirituality, the show offers a welcoming space to learn, question, and grow.
Hosted by experienced pagan clergy, Pagan Coffee Talk blends humor, honesty, and hands‑on wisdom to demystify the realities of practice. The podcast dives into topics such as ritual structure, magical ethics, coven dynamics, and the lived experience of serving a community—always with a focus on accessibility and authenticity. You’ll also hear discussions on the challenges of modern pagan leadership, the evolution of contemporary witchcraft traditions, and how practitioners can build sustainable spiritual habits in everyday life.
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Pagan Coffee Talk
Navigating the Storm of Witch Politics
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Why does the modern pagan community spend so much time tearing each other down? Today, we confront the unsettling trend of "witch politics" and the negative impact it has on our collective spiritual growth. Lady Alba and Lord Night dive into how these divisive behaviors mirror those seen in other religious communities, emphasizing the need to leave personal biases behind during communal worship. By addressing the problematic rise of unfounded accusations, including neo-Nazi labeling, we call for a return to mutual respect.
Ever wondered why some people feel the need to challenge and disprove others' spiritual beliefs? We tackle this issue head-on, shedding light on societal skepticism and judgment. The episode also brings historical figures like Aleister Crowley into the conversation, highlighting how misrepresentation can lead to unnecessary conflict. We stress the importance of respecting diverse spiritual philosophies while critiquing the hypocrisy of those intolerant of criticism themselves.
We explore the nature of faith and the importance of recognizing our inherent biases when sharing information. We question structured belief systems and emphasize the responsibility of educators and influencers to promote independent research. Wrapping up, we encourage listeners to avoid unnecessary arguments, focus on their spiritual well-being, and consider joining us for a strong cup of coffee in our next episode.
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Speaker 2Alright, Lord Knight. Why is it that it seems like every witch on social media and in podcasts is investing loads and loads of time into debunking key figures and other paths? I have no idea how is this an acceptable practice, though right? So, on one hand, we are the pagan community. Right we right.
Speaker 2We accept all paths, we honor all paths we recognize right, everyone's everything, but yet, holy crap, huge, huge amounts of research and time invested in. Well, this person's wrong and I'm going to show you why. And this person is full of shit and made up everything and I'm going to tell you why.
Speaker 3And you're going to find this funny, but you know what I think part of it is People are still trying their best to debunk practices like ours, but they're trying to debunk everything, right.
Speaker 2Everyone is trying to debunk everything. Right, everyone is trying to debunk everything and I go, wow, good way to suck the spirituality and the joy out of faith. Everyone, bravo, right, that's what they're doing. Someone who is going to a? Pick your term esoteric, pagan, witchcraft, wicca, occultist right.
Speaker 3Right.
Speaker 2Resource is there, I would hope, to further their spiritual growth and their spiritual connection, and instead what they're being faced with is all of these people going this one's wrong and that one's wrong and this thing. How is that helpful?
Speaker 3It really ain't.
Speaker 2It's not any different to me than Christian sects pointing fingers. And you know right, the Baptists are wrong, the Pentecostals are wrong how do we prevent that?
Speaker 3how do we prevent that in temple?
Speaker 2okay, in our temple, in our life temple. Yes, I mean because this, this behavior.
Speaker 3What you were talking about is not yeah all right, this is what.
Speaker 2when I was coming up, this was what you and the elders at the time called witch politics. Yes, now we don't call it that anymore because, again, social media has overwhelmed this process.
Speaker 2But witch politics was always. Yeah, this one believes this. This person believes that our beliefs differ slightly. I don't think what you're practicing is right, wrong or the other, so guess what? The rule is leave your shit at the door. When we come together as a group, you stow that, you tuck it away and you go. You know what? We're operating under a unified means of worship, and my personal whatever doesn't have a place here in this moment okay, because all we're teaching most first degrees, yeah, what are you mainly taught?
Speaker 3you are taught how in the world to function. Yes, inside ritual space. The point is to be in ritual space.
Speaker 2Yes, and how the hell do you accomplish that when you're so full of anger and you're fired up right Bitterness, and just it's fire and brimstone.
Speaker 3Ironically, Everyone's angry. I have heard more Christian bashing. I have heard more of bashing this bashing. I have heard more of bashing this if, if you don't have my values.
Speaker 2You know you're a nazi, you're this it. It's so funny you brought up the nazis man. I have never seen more people in craft accused of neo-Nazism than.
Speaker 3I have in the last year. I call it bull.
Speaker 2What the fuck is going on. So let me get this straight If I like Odin and I'm following a Norse path, I am automatically a neo-Nazi.
Speaker 3Now to some people oh, if you have certain beliefs. A neo-Nazi now to some people oh, if you have certain beliefs. There are people out there who believe that me and you, because of the way we believe, would probably be in that Nazi category.
Speaker 2That's insane.
Speaker 3This is where in the world, the world has moved to.
Speaker 2That is insane.
Speaker 3And this statement from a guy who has sat here and argued on this podcast multiple times. I don't believe in race. I think it should be put on the shelf with the flat earth theory.
Speaker 2Mm-hmm, I cannot believe that we're. And look, I always say this when you and I are taking a more conservative stance. Holy shit, thank you. What is going on out there, people? Because we for anyone who knows us or has interacted, we are not conservative humans. No, but come on, just because someone has a certain belief, the branding, the labeling, the wrongness of certain practices.
Speaker 3The judgmental attitude. Remember, this is where we sat there and we said. They said in the American Council of Witches the only animosity we hold to Christianity and any other philosophy of life is that they are the only way. Yeah, we are not the only way.
Speaker 2No, we have always said we are a way.
Speaker 2A way out of potentially thousands. And what's fucked up? Is this method right? These ideals that are going around are so intense that I can imagine there are people of craft out there right now who are going. You know what I want to do, something. I have an idea, and I want to merge two concepts or two practices that maybe up until now have not been put together, and this is what I want to make the basis for my temple, my organization, and they're afraid, but again, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 3People that do this like us. I do not mind criticism, all right. If you're going to come at me, don't be sitting there going. Well, you're unethical because you don't believe this. You don't believe my way, says who.
Speaker 3We just had someone listen to our episode on the initiation Left us a message going oh, y'all just evil. Blah, blah, blah. How dare y'all believe this? Y'all were an authoritarian. Blah, blah, blah. And we're like we've never told anyone. This is what we believe, right, and this is why we believe it. If you're going to attack this is what we believe we believe in these principles You're going to have to attack those. You're not going to sit here and make a moral stance.
Speaker 2That's my point.
Speaker 3Because I can't make a moral stance on this person.
Speaker 2And then I look at this and I go when did the pagan community become, one step away from Palestine and Israel? Thank you, Holy shit guys.
Speaker 3I don't care what Garnerians do.
Speaker 2Right.
Speaker 3Why should I? I don't care what the Alexandrians do. It's not my place to. I'm here to tell you what I think.
Speaker 2But I am, I'm shocked. I'm shocked by the level that this is going to, and it seems like it's everywhere. And here's what gets me it's all in the name of something scholarly or something that is scientific or educational.
Speaker 3Again, there's almost the worship of someone with this degree, if you have a doctorate, if you have a master's. You are more credible than some lonely person, even though that might only be in English or whatever. Sure, but you become more credible. We don't function that way, no we're. We base our respect or not respect on your actions and that's again.
Speaker 2That's what I'm shocked by. These actions are intense yes and they are harmful. And at what point? Right, if we continue to constantly point fingers and go they're wrong, they're wrong, they're wrong, they're wrong, we're all wrong, then, yes, and all we're doing is feeding the fuel with faiths outside of us to go. Well, you guys can't even get it together, Right?
Speaker 3It really is baffling Again the other faiths are sitting back going we ain't got this problem, they'll rip themselves apart, yeah yeah, and it's happening, and it's happening.
Speaker 2This is a very volatile time and you know, I've never been a big fan of the whole love and light and everybody and everything. It's just a little too one-sided for me, is all it comes down to right those practices it seems more like you're giving up your beliefs to make everybody else happy yes, but then. But there's an irony to this, right, because when I look at all of this stuff and I look at someone like selena fox okay, we've met her many times- she's involved in many different things, right selena fox has.
Speaker 2For me personally, I've never been a follower, you know like right I look at what selena fox does and I go. It's very nice, but it's a little too fluffy for my taste for me when I see her and I hear her speak.
Speaker 3She's still doing that whole 60 thing.
Speaker 2Yes, yes, yes, it's hippie based.
Speaker 3It's very I find it more tolerable from her because she is just coming from that, because it's genuine, because it's genuine, because it's genuine, absolutely, absolutely. You're like I know this woman lived through this. She knows what she's talking about, what was going on during this time knows what she's talking about, what was going on during this time, but?
Speaker 2but what gets me is you don't hear as many people jump onto the back of someone like selena fox because at the end of the day, they go, but she's so nice, she is, she's so nice and she's the most loving woman right and she's so adorable and she's so enthusiastic look, every time I time I've ever met her, I'm just like would you just be my grandma, right, make me some cookies, please, right.
Respecting Diverse Beliefs in Paganism
Speaker 2But that's sort of my point. So no one's attacking her, or very few people, right, there's not the same process. But, oh boy, if you have ever taken a stronger stance about your beliefs in paganism, and some of them are more on the left-hand path or you know whatever you want to call it, people, just immediately it's like I'm gonna disprove you. Why, why, fuck off?
Speaker 1I mean, is it?
Speaker 3Why do people think they deserve representations in other people's beliefs?
Speaker 2Oh, oh, that's a good one.
Speaker 3I have never figured that out.
Speaker 2That's so nice. Yeah, it's true. Why, why?
Speaker 3Why.
Speaker 2That's a great question.
Speaker 3You walk into these doors of your own free will. You walk out of your own free will.
Speaker 2Yeah, but. I mean look free will you walk out of your own free will? Yeah, but I mean, look, I believe that it is enough to simply say practitioners of these beliefs as a whole are divisive individuals. You are not going to agree with everything they say. No, you are going to have fault with some of their ideals and you go. Okay, and that's it. Take what you need, leave what you don't, and the rest fuck off.
Speaker 3I mean, we interact with people of other temples and other traditions and there are things that they believe that we just think is just yeah, I know, but it's not like we're calling it out on the carpet in front of them, absolutely To try to embarrass them.
Speaker 2Who the fuck are we to do that?
Speaker 3And then you know look Crowley, because Crowley's been such a figure for so many years, I think it's because we understand those mysteries We've realized that they might believe in this and it might be crap but it might be a lynchpin for about 50 other things, absolutely.
Speaker 2But it's the idea that, like right back in his day, when crowley said, let thou will be the whole of the law, right, it was such a strong message against christianity and against the ideas of the will of god versus the will of the self that people latched on to it, right, and you had these huge, huge groups who followed him and who adopted similar beliefs. But now, oh now, everybody's like what do you mean? What do you mean? You can do anything, you want anything and you can hide behind that? No, he never said that. No, read the fucking work before you get all heavy-handed and go down that road of wanting to say that he was a fraud or he was this or he was that.
Speaker 3No, it's his tradition and it was his other traditions and it was his philosophy of life right and it is not my place to judge exactly, so let him be. I mean, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2There are people who are out there whose philosophy in life is that a carbohydrate should never be consumed, right. There are people whose philosophy in life is that you've got to get up and run 16 miles every single day. There are people whose philosophy in life is that, right, you have to live a minimalist life to live a good life. I mean, everybody has a personal philosophy, right? Does that mean that I am walking into my friend's homes going how the fuck can you live like this? Why are you doing?
Speaker 3this why did you put that color on that wall? That's not the color I would have done, exactly, you need to do that. Just move out of my way, I'll just go ahead and paint it while I'm here what? Yeah, it's getting to be out of control and well, the make it even worse is these same people when it, when they have it done to them. What happens when someone questions one of their beliefs? Yeah, when someone does to them what they've been doing, everybody, what happens?
Respecting Individual Beliefs in Faith
Speaker 2well, right now it's, you know right. Everybody's canceled and then it becomes. They go on the defensive and then it, it just spirals. It spirals so quickly. And the very nature of any type of faith. And if you cannot say that esoteric practices and occult practices are not based in spirituality, of course they fucking are. But the minute we start doing this, we forget that all faith, all of it, every single faith, is based on some principle of the unbelievable, exactly, principle of the unbelievable, exactly.
Speaker 2It's based on some principle of something or multiple somethings that is greater than us but that people could debunk, that people could say, well, that's not right or that's not real. Well, no shit, that's what makes it faith. We can't do like.
Speaker 3It's just ridiculous Again, people do not understand the reason we have a police force is because we believe we have a police force. Are you with me, Kind of? As long as we believe in these systems, they exist Well it's like money Sure.
Speaker 2It's not any different.
Speaker 3It's not any different.
Speaker 2Right Paper, it's paper. It holds no actual value. It's not any different. It's not any different. Right Paper, it's paper. It holds no actual value. It's nothing Not A bank note is just that. It's a promissory note from a bank.
Speaker 3It's an idea, it's a concept.
Speaker 2Yes, it's a concept, but I mean millions upon millions of people's faith is based on a concept. I remember one time getting into a semi-heated discussion with a friend of mine who was Christian because she was talking about literally Jesus teaching Right.
Speaker 3Okay.
Speaker 2And I said I don't think he did. And she goes what do you mean? Of course he did. And I said no, I mean when Jesus was speaking, when he was alive, I don't think that he was setting out to go. I'm going to teach, Right, I'm going to teach this belief.
Speaker 3I'm not sitting down and making out a lesson plan.
Speaker 2Right, he was just talking. He was just, it was a discussion, it was philosophical perhaps.
Speaker 3It's what we are doing right now.
Speaker 2Yes, it wasn't like he was. Yeah, creating a syllabus and creating a class. That wasn't it. The disciples are the ones who did that later.
Speaker 3Much later.
Speaker 2And so, but she was really, truly convinced that Jesus taught, sermoned, preached like, did these things, and I had to finally take a step back.
Speaker 3And I believe he did give sermons to large crowds.
Speaker 2Yeah, but again I go. Were they sermons or were they just talks? Were they I don't know that it was any? I mean, remember there was no entertainment, there was no television, there was no like, is it not just someone talking?
Speaker 3right, there's this long-haired hippie down the road. Let's go listen to him. See what he says I don't.
Speaker 2I don't believe it was as thought out, right as she believed it was, and I and at some point in the conversation I stopped. I just stopped because I said I need to shut my mouth because what I'm doing right now she is perceiving as a direct attack upon her beliefs right and who the fuck am I to tell her she's wrong, exactly right, right. So I was like you know what? I don't know enough.
Speaker 3Not my field of expertise.
Speaker 2Yeah, that's literally how I backed out and I said you know you could be right. I don't know, and I still don't know if I believe that he really did some of those things. But it doesn't mean I have the right to try to rip away her faith.
Speaker 3Well, I mean to semi-think about it in the way he taught is the same way our elders taught us.
Speaker 2Right.
Speaker 3It is a form of teaching to some extent Right. I mean sort of yeah, it's a weird way to teach, but it's fun.
Speaker 2It is. But we really have to look at when we are out there in whatever form, be it us, be it other groups, be it people with podcasts on the internet, whatever means or one of these paths or whatever it is.
Speaker 3Are you also peppering in your opinions or your ideas about certain individuals? First and foremost, yes, to sit here and to think everybody's not biased, all right. I'm biased to what I believe, and I think people don't want to admit that to themselves when they're doing certain things.
Speaker 2Correct. But if you are out there and you are claiming to be an educator and you are claiming to be someone who is going to distribute this information, check yourself, recognize the bias and be forthright about it. The bias, and be forthright about it. Don't make it come across as fact. Acknowledge the fact that. Okay, you know what. I'm going to deviate for a minute and I'm going to give you my opinion on a particular figure Exactly.
Speaker 2I might be right, I might be wrong. Here's my thoughts on it. At least give people that, because without it you just you're starting to formulate another person's ideas prematurely, before they've even had the opportunity to do their own research exactly and, let's be honest, people are fucking lazy well, and let's admit it, how much do we believe the first thing we see? Bingo right. People hear something or they experience something. That's the truth, you know, and some of them never bother to investigate beyond that.
Speaker 3No.
Speaker 2It's very, very problematic for a society that seems so focused on what's factual.
Speaker 3But yet if you're sitting there telling people to do this, to stop, go check people for yourself.
Speaker 2Yeah, but for me it's just stop it, stop. We don't have the right. Could you imagine if the Native Americans did this with a tribe structure? Right, tribes have different beliefs, people. Tribes have different leaders. There are similarities, but there are similarities, but there are also dick, could you?
Speaker 3and they used to go over war. Yeah, when they had the whole country, they would go over war over the religious belief.
Speaker 2But now but now today, with what we know right historically, with everything that has happened to native peoples in this country. Could you imagine if they were still doing that, if the sioux were still fighting with the blackfoot? Why?
Speaker 3what would be the point?
Speaker 2exactly. We have to be united if we are to survive people seem to have forgotten the whole entire concept.
Speaker 3If you attack one religion, you attack all of us oh, and if? One of one religion loses their any rights. Yep, we all do. Yeah, it is dangerous it is.
Speaker 2It really really is. And unfortunately, this also brings about the conversation of things that even we have talked about in this light Scientology yeah, jehovah's Witnesses. Right, it's real easy to go. Oh, they're a cult.
Speaker 4Well, you know what?
Speaker 2There are plenty of people who believe it. So again it's like who am I to take their faith? Now, big picture is it harmful? The jehovah's?
Speaker 3I have never heard you know I've never even heard him say a harsh word that's my point, and and I mean you walk out and go.
Speaker 2Thank you, bye yes and they're okay they're I mean they're not a violent people. Everything they do is based on volunteers. You know, there are aspects of what the Jehovah's do that I think are kind of okay.
Speaker 3I mean, look, I'm not going to sit there and set my hair on fire.
Speaker 2No, no, I mean.
Speaker 3That's the part that gets me wrong is when these stuff happens and these people just listen, I'm gonna be honest, like with the jehovah's.
Speaker 2There's a part of me that every time I see the young men on their bicycles in their suits, I think good for them. These young men are gonna have some structure, they're gonna have a sense of pride and order, and it's going to take much longer to get that pot belly yeah they.
Speaker 2There's something about this that is okay and I mean again, they're not harming anyone. Now, scientology, of course. Yes, they've come under fire for a lot of misguided practices and things there, and yes, and I think main, most people's main hatred is there are more pushful tactics yeah, it's the monetary component of it and it just yeah, you know, but but hey, you do you exactly.
Speaker 2And there it is. At the end of the day, you do, you boo. We are no one to say that someone else is wrong, that their faith, their belief thing, that they made, whatever it is, is wrong if it is serving a purpose in their life. Shut up, just shut up, just stop. Leave them be discuss that Share, but stop condemning.
Speaker 3I mean because at no point have I ever figured out a way to break the whole entire logic of self-initiation. If one believes one's a witch, then one's a witch. How do you break that?
Speaker 2You don't.
Speaker 3There's no way to break that logic.
Speaker 2You don't I mean.
Speaker 3The reality is simply yes, it is Now what bothers me is when people think, just because they have that title, that I automatically should give them some type of respect or see them as such.
Speaker 2But you know what?
Speaker 3And you're kind of like what does this have to do with me and how I see you? Well?
Speaker 2I mean again to me. I don't liken it much differently to the way I see Catholicism. When I was growing up I went through all the sacraments except marriage. I was not married into the, the catholic church, but the way I view it is at confirmation, which is the big one. You know right, you know the, the, all the religious studies that you did come up to that point as a Christian or as a Catholic. Prior to my confirmation, I was no less a Christian, right, I was no less a Catholic. There was an additional knowledge bestowed upon those kids of saying you have come to a place in your spiritual growth and your path that, should you choose to enter the seminary, to enter the monastery, you are prepared to do it.
Speaker 3Right, you can start from this point on, to move down that path.
Speaker 2Yes, and I see initiation in a similar fashion. It's not that we're saying prior to initiation, you're not a witch, no. But after initiation, there is a level of credibility and of recognition for the efforts.
Speaker 3There is sort of a seal of approval. Yes, Because again you're being initiated and you're being witnessed by other people being initiated into that.
Speaker 2Exactly, but you put in the work, you did it. That is different than the self-appointed Right, that's all.
Speaker 3This is your graduation.
Speaker 2Yes, yes, and one of them for that One of them.
Speaker 3Yes, yes.
Speaker 2And one of them for that One of them, yeah, but I mean, I don't view it any differently than that, but yes, by comparison. As a kid growing up as Catholic, I remember talking to friends who were Christian, of other faiths, and they were mesmerized by some of those practices the confirmation, the first communion. They were like what the hell, why?
Speaker 3I'm still mesmerized by it.
Speaker 2But it was that system of order and preparation. It was an understanding of where you are in the grand scheme of your journey.
Speaker 3Well again and most people keep on forgetting. Religion is like your first Doctor who. Whatever doctor you see, the first time is your doctor and you will watch them loyally, no matter what. You with me. I mean again me sitting here and downing any other religion, because I've only ever known this structure. This is what I was raised in.
Speaker 2Right.
Speaker 3So of course, other religions are going to look foreign to me.
Speaker 2Right.
Speaker 3And we're flat out told hey, this is what's going to happen.
Speaker 2Right.
Navigating Beliefs With Respect
Speaker 3And you know what. There's no use in arguing or debating anybody. They are allowed to believe what they're believing.
Speaker 2Yeah, absolutely, so stop taking it away. Stop trying to take it away. And, for the love of God, anyone who is doing that, who's trying to take it away, and, for the love of god, anyone who is doing that who's trying to to debunk someone else. Take what they say with a grain of salt. Understand that those people. Not only are they coming to the table with a bias, they're angry, but quit watching their videos, quit reading their material, just walk away from them maybe I wouldn't necessarily say that that's entirely necessary.
Speaker 3I mean, if this is all they're doing.
Speaker 2Be cautious. Yeah, understand that there's something else fueling that behavior and again, it really is a matter of is this beneficial to your spiritual growth or not? And, if it's not, walk away, preferably towards the coffee.
Speaker 3I could use some coffee, okay.
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